I'm not on FB, but I can post something on MySpace when I get home...

It should be positive, like, "thank you, everyone who has given to the Haiti relief efforts! If you'd also like to help out a little closer to home, don't forget about the charitable causes that help our own less fortunate..." with links for charities that help hungry children, the elderly in need of assistance, homeless vets, etc... One for each of the things the original 'shaming' message tries to use to make us feel bad.